the conscious dater
This program is for women who have done a tremendous amount of work on themselves — years in therapy, a mountain of self-help books, a career that rewards them for exactly this kind of effort — and are still single, still wondering if they've run out of time to build the family and life they want.
My new relationship is a true testimony to the fact that working with Clara was an invaluable experience for me. I could not recommend it more to anyone who has struggled with dating and relationships. With so much terrible dating advice out there, Clara has such a unique and thoughtful approach that is not to be missed.
— Female, 37, NYC
MY CLIENTS COME TO ME FEELING:
Behind in life—like all the good ones have been taken. That they've missed their chance.
Like they've done all this work—through therapy and self help—but nothing has changed.
Confused as to why they've made so much change in other areas of their life—but not here.
Sad and jealous watching friends get married and have babies.
Lonely (and they often keep that to themselves).
That they're able to do everything on their own, but they're so tired of living that way.
That if they finally meet someone, they'll have to settle.
Burnt out by the dating apps, but lost in how to meet someone anywhere else.
IF THIS SOUNDS FAMILIAR..
It's like you're an optometrist: I didn't know how limiting some of my beliefs were until, lens by lens, you guided me to improved clarity. I see the world for what it is (still have astigmatism - still need the nudges). AND continuing to do the work so that I can drive safely sounds so deep and rich and good.
— Female, 41, San Francisco
I’ve run my practice for eight years.
I specialize in helping high-achieving women who've built everything—except the relationship they actually want.
Clara has been a gift I wish I could bestow on any woman who finds herself adrift from where she wants to be and needs support to define her goal and actually get there. For the first time in the last eight years, I am actually excited and optimistic about my future.
— Fem,ale, 39, london
I had worked with therapists and life coaches before working with Clara. Either there wasn’t a great connection to support vulnerability and trust, or I felt criticized for some of the things I knew I needed to work on. Often I felt like I was talking at a nodding head with empathetic eyes.
Clara is so different. She creates a safe, welcoming and shared space so that I can and want to share everything I am (especially what I’m afraid to share). The multi-modal approach of journaling, voice messages and coaching sessions makes vulnerability, reflection and discovery accessible and substantive. The podcasts, books, exercises and journaling prompts she weaves into our work together feel intelligent and tactical.
She tells me what I need to hear in a way I need to hear it.
— Female, 42, Austin