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For our babymoon, my husband and I spent two weeks in France, visiting Provence, the Cote d’Azur and Paris. Here’s where we stayed, what we ate, what we saw and how much we spent.
Last summer, in an attempt to impress our house guests and make my famous chicken wings, I ended up not only destroying then, but then falling apart because of it. My inner child so badly wanted to impress my husband's friends, but ended up having a full on tantrum because of how much shame she felt.
I thought getting married and having the relationship I dreamed of, would wash away the shame I felt for not being the popular teenager. Turns out, it’s more complicated than that.
Years ago I went through a very painful breakup that left me with zero capacity to date. It was hard to tell when I would ever be ready to date again. This piece shares the story of how I came to that answer by way of meeting new people.
It can be hard to know the best photos to use in a dating profile. A helpful place to start is to actually narrow down the photos that don't work for you. In this episode, I'm sharing the story of a bikini photo I posted years ago that I thought would deliver me all the matches I wanted, but actually had the opposite effect.
On the heels of Andrew Huberman’s ex-girlfriends coming forth and revealing the truth about his personal life, I’m sharing my experience dating a man who held great academic and professional authority, but also exercised emotional manipulation.
As an introvert and recovering codependent, here's how I work in daily solo time away from my husband to engage in the activities I love most.
As a codependent, I spent years over giving in relationships. Here’s how my 35th birthday celebration gone bad taught me to stand my ground and open up to receiving more love and support.
As an introvert and recovering codependent, here's how I work in daily solo time away from my husband to engage in the activities I love most.
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Why do so many self-aware, high-achieving women still struggle to find love? In this episode, Clara unpacks the paradox of doing all the inner work and still feeling stuck in dating — and makes the case for cocooning, patience, and shifting from doing to being before you go looking for a partner.
You're done with the apps. Now what? This episode is your guide to noticing romantic possibility in everyday life — and why it starts with how you see yourself.
AI can't fix this. Neither can a better app. Dating coach Clara Artschwager explains why you can't meet people in person — and traces it back to the childhood moments that taught you your desire wasn't safe.
I Think I Like You is taking a summer break — but this episode is your dating and relationship roadmap for the season. Explore curated episodes on overachievers in love, meeting people in person, taking a dating break, navigating dating apps with more sanity, and healing after a breakup. 170+ episodes of dating advice for high-achieving women, available anytime. New episodes return in September.