I think I like you

with Clara Artschwager

 A counterintuitive approach to dating and relationship in the digital age.

This is for the woman who feels disenchanted by more common dating rhetoric and sometimes even questions if she wants a relationship at all. She already lives a rich, full life. She would like to share that with someone, but not at the expense of herself.

What gives? That’s where we’re digging in.

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The exact advice you need when you're tired, frustrated and feel like nothing is advancing in your life | Ep 134
The exact advice you need when you're tired, frustrated and feel like nothing is advancing in your life | Ep 134
The season in life where I thought "Maybe I just don't want a relationship" | Ep 132
The season in life where I thought "Maybe I just don't want a relationship" | Ep 132
This is where the feeling "I'm never going to meet someone" comes from | Ep 131
This is where the feeling "I'm never going to meet someone" comes from | Ep 131
EP 130 | If you want something new (the new job, the new partner), you're going to have to let something go
EP 130 | If you want something new (the new job, the new partner), you're going to have to let something go
EP 129 | This might be my go to marriage + dating advice for all of 2025
EP 129 | This might be my go to marriage + dating advice for all of 2025
EP 128 | I've been in therapy for years but I'm still single. What gives?
EP 128 | I've been in therapy for years but I'm still single. What gives?
EP 127 | Why you don't need to (and shouldn't) go on a million dates to meet someone in 2025
EP 127 | Why you don't need to (and shouldn't) go on a million dates to meet someone in 2025
EP 126 | Embracing a slow start to 2025 and my first few weeks as a mom
EP 126 | Embracing a slow start to 2025 and my first few weeks as a mom
EP 125 | Why is sex with the people who are so wrong for us so good w/ therapist, Julia Zwerin
EP 125 | Why is sex with the people who are so wrong for us so good w/ therapist, Julia Zwerin
EP 124 | How overachievers shoot themselves in the foot with their careers, and what we can do about it
EP 124 | How overachievers shoot themselves in the foot with their careers, and what we can do about it
EP 123 | How do we sit with the desire for a relationship while also not knowing when it will happen?
EP 123 | How do we sit with the desire for a relationship while also not knowing when it will happen?
EP 122 | We don't necessarily need our partners to come full therapized, our confusion around settling, and the emotional labor necessary for us all in relationships w/ Kara Loewentheil
EP 122 | We don't necessarily need our partners to come full therapized, our confusion around settling, and the emotional labor necessary for us all in relationships w/ Kara Loewentheil
EP 121 | Do you believe yourself to be desirable? Do you expect to be asked out? A sneaky way you could be self sabotaging your dating life
EP 121 | Do you believe yourself to be desirable? Do you expect to be asked out? A sneaky way you could be self sabotaging your dating life
EP 120 | Part III: How our drive to be good, to be high achievers, to put other people's needs before our own keeps us single or stuck in unhealthy relationships
EP 120 | Part III: How our drive to be good, to be high achievers, to put other people's needs before our own keeps us single or stuck in unhealthy relationships
EP 119 | Part II: Why eldest daughters/hero children can remain chronically single or just have so much resistance to dating
EP 119 | Part II: Why eldest daughters/hero children can remain chronically single or just have so much resistance to dating
Mini Ep: Why do women who don’t do the work, who are are just as messed up as the rest of us, find great people? Why does it just never happen for me?
Mini Ep: Why do women who don’t do the work, who are are just as messed up as the rest of us, find great people? Why does it just never happen for me?
EP 118 | Part I: How Eldest Daughters/Hero Children Struggle in Relationships
EP 118 | Part I: How Eldest Daughters/Hero Children Struggle in Relationships
EP 117 | How do we know if we're settling? How did I know my husband was the one? Should I do and prenup? A more in this Q+A Episode
EP 117 | How do we know if we're settling? How did I know my husband was the one? Should I do and prenup? A more in this Q+A Episode
EP 116 | My ultimate goal with clients isn't marriage
EP 116 | My ultimate goal with clients isn't marriage
EP 115 | All Things Money And Partnership
EP 115 | All Things Money And Partnership
EP 114 | On Making, Maintaining and Letting go of Friends in Our 30s + 40s
EP 114 | On Making, Maintaining and Letting go of Friends in Our 30s + 40s
EP 113 | On trusting the (divine) timing of our lives + What's behind *feeling* behind
EP 113 | On trusting the (divine) timing of our lives + What's behind *feeling* behind
EP 112 | The Career Conversation I’m Having With All My 38ish Friends
EP 112 | The Career Conversation I’m Having With All My 38ish Friends
EP 111 | On Resisting Ease in Your Dating Life/Life in General
EP 111 | On Resisting Ease in Your Dating Life/Life in General
EP 110 | You’re Going to Have to Royally F*ck Up In Your Dating Life
EP 110 | You’re Going to Have to Royally F*ck Up In Your Dating Life
EP 109 | How much is enough? In life, money, career, love, etc. w/ Catherine Zack
EP 109 | How much is enough? In life, money, career, love, etc. w/ Catherine Zack
EP 108 | An Initial Look at My Journey Into Pregnancy
EP 108 | An Initial Look at My Journey Into Pregnancy
EP 107 | On being the girl who never got asked out and *now* desiring a relationship
EP 107 | On being the girl who never got asked out and *now* desiring a relationship
EP 106 | When You Just Need to Put Everything Down
EP 106 | When You Just Need to Put Everything Down
EP 105 | How did you know you wanted to marry your husband? (Slash how I called in my husband)
EP 105 | How did you know you wanted to marry your husband? (Slash how I called in my husband)

 

About Your Host

I’m a dating and relationships coach and a writer. But mostly I’m a human being messily making her way through life and love.

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