the conscious dater
This program is for women who have done a tremendous amount of work on themselves—from years in therapy to a mountain of self-help books—but are still single and worried they’ve run out of time to build the family and life they want.
My clients are educated, self-aware and professionally accomplished. They have a lot about their lives they absolutely love. But they also long deeply for a partner and family that currently feels completely out of reach. That reality is often not something they share with many people.
If You:
Are frustrated watching peers meet people, get married, have families, when they haven’t done nearly as much work on themselves
Wonder if there’s something wrong with you, and that’s why you haven’t met someone yet
Can’t shake the belief that time has run out or all the ‘good ones’ have been taken
Struggle to feel deserving or attractive
Fear that if someone really got to know the full details of who you are — they’d reject you
Are concerned about your fertility and how you’d handle that with a potential partner
Loathe the dating apps, can’t imagine meeting someone there, but then wonder how you’ll ever meet someone
Feel like the people you like never like you back
Assume that if you do meet someone at this point, you’re going to have to settle
Are highly capable, high-functioning, and yet can’t figure out this area of your life
This program is designed to serve you.
My new relationship is a true testimony to the fact that working with Clara was an invaluable experience for me. I could not recommend it more to anyone who has struggled with dating and relationships. With so much terrible dating advice out there, Clara has such a unique and thoughtful approach that is not to be missed.
— Female, 37, NYC
Program details
Four months in length
We do three 60-minute calls per month
You’re assigned weekly written work + monthly content assignments that feel nourishing, not like more work
This program is a living, breathing thing — we work in between sessions via voice note + text. You have ongoing support.
This program is NOT designed to fix you. You don’t need fixing. It’s to help you see your obstacles and blocks in a new light.
Program cost:
Pay in full $7,500.00
Monthly retainer: Four payments of $1900.00
An intro call is a chance for you to get to know me and see if my approach meets the type of support and guidance you’re seeking. Schedule one below to learn more or sign up to work with me:
It's like you're an optometrist: I didn't know how limiting some of my beliefs were until, lens by lens, you guided me to improved clarity. I see the world for what it is (still have astigmatism - still need the nudges). AND continuing to do the work so that I can drive safely sounds so deep and rich and good.
— Female, 41, San Francisco
I’ve run my practice for eight years.
I bring a tremendous amount of integrity to my work. I care deeply about my client’s evolution and ability to experience the things they so deeply want. If that’s something you’re curious about, let’s chat.
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Clara has been a gift I wish I could bestow on any woman who finds herself adrift from where she wants to be and needs support to define her goal and actually get there. For the first time in the last eight years, I am actually excited and optimistic about my future.
— Fem,ale, 39, london
I had worked with therapists and life coaches before working with Clara. Either there wasn’t a great connection to support vulnerability and trust, or I felt criticized for some of the things I knew I needed to work on. Often I felt like I was talking at a nodding head with empathetic eyes.
Clara is so different. She creates a safe, welcoming and shared space so that I can and want to share everything I am (especially what I’m afraid to share). The multi-modal approach of journaling, voice messages and coaching sessions makes vulnerability, reflection and discovery accessible and substantive. The podcasts, books, exercises and journaling prompts she weaves into our work together feel intelligent and tactical.
She tells me what I need to hear in a way I need to hear it.
— Female, 42, Austin