EP 99 | What are the "best" places to meet people?
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Oftentimes, in our dating journey, when things aren’t working out or we can’t seem to meet people….our minds go to someplace like: location. Location, location, location. Similar to real estate, we start thinking, It must be where I live. I just must not live in a great place to meet people.
I have worked with people from (literally) all over the globe. From big cities to small towns, and everything in between. And I’ve witnessed every single person, no matter their whereabouts, struggle with where they live and think that’s the reason they aren’t meet people.
In today’s episode I’m digging into:
Why it feels “helpful” to attach to the idea that our location, i.e. living in a place with not enough single people, is what’s holding us back
What we’re actually searching for when we say “Maybe I need to go to more bookstores and coffee shops to meet people?”
How beliefs like “Dating in my city is hard,” or “Not enough people in my city go out” are impacting us and influencing our behavior
How it has way less to do with where we live and more to do with how we carry ourselves through this world and what we believe is possible/accessible for us
How you actually can meet someone anywhere, and what matters when it comes to opening yourself up to those opportunities