I work with SINGLE WOMEN, MARRIED WOMEN, AND WOMEN ON THE HEELS OF breakups & DIVORCE.

Your relationships (or lack thereof) are not by chance. Every one off date, fling, situation-ship or decade long marriage is reflective of a deeper pattern and story. One you can choose to repeat — or change. I work with people to change it.

The marriage audit

In the last few years, I've noticed something consistent in women in their early 40s, deeper into their marriage and kid-making.

The kid(s), while still young, are in more of a routine. Life is busy, but not as radically unsettled. You're getting a little more sleep, a little more time to yourself, and with that, space to reflect.

With that reflection comes some questions, namely around your marriage. Things that didn't irk you before now irk you. Things that weren’t an obstacles before are now a daily mountain to climb. Things you didn't question before, you now question. Perhaps you dabbled in couples therapy. It may have helped slightly, but the day-to-day struggles and frustrations remain.

You're asking questions like: What am I meant to do here? How did we get here? What's right for us? What’s right for me?

This container, a combination of live sessions, written work, and content, is meant to carry you through that period. To bring concrete relief, clarity, courage, and true-to-you next steps.

Here’s what previous clients have said about this program:

We’d spent years in marriage counseling, making barely perceptible progress, when I heard Clara on a podcast. While she spoke in the context of dating, what she said applied to my 10-year marriage.  Her words resonated with me and encouraged me to reach out.

In my analytical ‘do-er’ mentality, my intention was to present my marital concerns to Clara, have her ‘fix it,’ tick that off my to-do list, and move on to the next obstacle in my life. What I received wasn’t the answer, it wasn’t a fix, but rather how to ask the right questions and inspect my long-held beliefs that I wasn’t even consciously aware of.

Clara was a delight to work with, never judgmental. Her inquisitive style had me learning about myself and viewing my relationships in ways I hadn’t considered.

We covered more ground and I uncovered more about myself and my relationship under her guidance in those few months than I had in those years of therapy. The amount of clarity and peace that came from this work was life-changing.

All of my programs include a mix of :

  • Live coaching sessions

  • Writing assignments

  • Content assignments

  • Ongoing digital communication (voice note and text)

To learn more about that, along with program costs, duration and structure, listen to the audio recording below, and, if helpful, schedule a discovery call. To sign up immediately please email me at clara@ithinkilikeyou.co with your program selection.

what previous clients have said:

 

“i am in awe at how i look at relationships differently, and how i examine my own desires & needs. I feel so powerful.”

— Female, Midwest, 35

 

“The amount of clarity and new knowledge that i gained in my time working with her is astonishing.”

— Male, NYC, 30

“i had already gone through much traditional therapy when i came to clara, but she took me to a level i didn’t even know i could be on.”

— Female, NYC, 32

 

“our work was the catalyst to a wholesale change in my being—thank you.”

— Female, DC, 37

AND ALSO….

I recommend checking out my podcast and newsletter, as both of these resources will give you a window into my philosophies and how I work: