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On Seeing People I Went To High School With On The Dating Apps
I thought getting married and having the relationship I dreamed of, would wash away the shame I felt for not being the popular teenager. Turns out, it’s more complicated than that.
It’s a lesson, not a mini-heartbreak.
Years ago I went through a very painful breakup that left me with zero capacity to date. It was hard to tell when I would ever be ready to date again. This piece shares the story of how I came to that answer by way of meeting new people.
The Bikini Photo Was Never a Good Idea
It can be hard to know the best photos to use in a dating profile. A helpful place to start is to actually narrow down the photos that don't work for you. In this episode, I'm sharing the story of a bikini photo I posted years ago that I thought would deliver me all the matches I wanted, but actually had the opposite effect.
I Dated a Huberman Type, Here’s My Story
On the heels of Andrew Huberman’s ex-girlfriends coming forth and revealing the truth about his personal life, I’m sharing my experience dating a man who held great academic and professional authority, but also exercised emotional manipulation.
On Feeling behind in life
As an introvert and recovering codependent, here's how I work in daily solo time away from my husband to engage in the activities I love most.
I Spent Years Making My Own Birthday Plans
As a codependent, I spent years over giving in relationships. Here’s how my 35th birthday celebration gone bad taught me to stand my ground and open up to receiving more love and support.
How I Secure Alone Time In My Marriage
As an introvert and recovering codependent, here's how I work in daily solo time away from my husband to engage in the activities I love most.
I wish I never told him I loved him.
We've all had those relationships where we look back and think, "How did I let that happen? How did I let it get that far?" Driven by ego and societal pressures, it's easy to fall into the trappings of a relationship that on the surface seems right, but deep down isn't a fit. This post explores how one copes.